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Lesbians Might Have Sex As Well, Thank-you

: you understand the deal. a man and a woman are located in an auto together. Your ex is actually speaking about the woman girlfriend. The girl mentions sex along with her sweetheart. The child informs the woman that “lesbians cannot make love.” The lady gets really pissed off. Then girl produces an article for “The Frisky” (a site we have a life threatening love/hate union with our selves, but would defo have lesbian gender with, whatever that will be, considering the chance):

“Intercourse is actually a romantic and passionate knowledge. It really is an essential and psychological section of my connection. When someone tells me everything I feel and believe isn’t really genuine simply because There isn’t a dong, it’s demeaning therefore helps make me unfortunate.”

(@the frisky)

Oh yes, this again. Additionally this week on Blowfish’s weblog, Greta Christina reacts to a recent Dan Savage line in which Dan must describe “what is actually intercourse” and asks:

Does (X) count as having sex? And does it issue?

Christina analyzes the variety of reasons that categorizing particular sex will act as “intercourse’ or “maybe not sex” pays to or not, and alludes to the girl oft-cited 1992 essay:

Tend to be We Having Sexual Intercourse Today or Just What?

whereby she examines her first reasons behind counting lovers as well as how hard it eventually became to do this as her intimate existence increased much more diversified — especially when she began f*cking ladies:

I’d always made my personal list of gender partners by determining sex as penile-vaginal sex. But with women… really, first of all there is no cock, so right from the start the tracking system is faulty. Right after which, there are a lot techniques females may have intercourse with one another, t

ouching and licking and grinding and fingering and fisting

— with dildoes greens or whatever is sleeping around the house, or with nothing at all except individual systems. Naturally, that’s true with intercourse between women and men also. But between females, no one method has a centuries-old custom of being the one that matters … when we started having sex with ladies, the binary program was required to get, in favor of a more inclusive description.

In 1993, two girls had written the famous guidance column

Go Ask Alice!

to confess they happened to be “deciding on lesbian activity” and possess “always already been intrigued by lesbians and now have already been inquiring the question,

How do they do it?

” its a charming small response.

Next check-out ”

the students lady’s guide to muffdiving

.” Next chck away guru Felice Newman, author of “the entire Lesbian Intercourse Book” (you keep in mind that, appropriate? From picture [below] of Alice getting the woman gift from Phyllis?)’s website, she has a myriad of a few ideas about

just how lesbians have sex

, from

ideas on how to please a butch

to

how to jerk-off like some guy

.

Gallery:
Naked Women Checking Out Banned Books

: “Pinchbottom Burlesque premiered Naked women Checking out Banned publications at Madame X on Friday, October 16. It was managed by terrible Canasta, with girl tuesday, GiGi Los Angeles Femme, Jo Boobs, thighs Malone, Sapphire Jones and Naked women Checking out originator, Michelle L’Amour.”

Bitchtapes: For Hot Hot Sexin’ it Up

– the hot gender blend tape at @bitchblogs, in event of Bitch, Bed and Beyond.

College Soccer Preview: Cheerleader Edition

– using this totally misogynistic web site that irresistibly provides titilating galleries of hot girls, a reasonably “real” gallery recently. (@coed)

Lindsay Lohan goes shopping,

enables you to see her fantastic boobs

, kinda, guy tends to make shitty comment about the woman face, which also at the worst, seems better than most of your confronts.  (@egotastic)

Sensuous Lesbian Tumblr Alert:

Las Vegas, Nevada Design
.

Primetime Panty Pageant Returns To Ny

Let us all see photographs from just last year’s program and advise our selves how bizarre really that Victoria’s Secret reigns over the luxurious underwear market within this country. (@fleshbot)

The Lesbian Sex Mafia victories The Village Voice’s Best Erotic Bloodletting award

. (@villagevoice)

Jezebel takes a f*cking humorous digital day at Loveland


:


“LoveLand is a South Korean sculpture park dedicated to gender, and it is described from the park by itself as “someplace where sexually-oriented art and eroticism meet.” They neglected to remember that particular parts of the park are actually very creepy.”

”

From images we noticed

, there were couple of (or no) photographs of same intercourse couples, though in equity those sculptures may not have demonstrated an ability into the images which were open to myself.”

UPON SEX:

Discover a clip from a film with Mila Kunis and Zoe Saldana. And it’s about girl-on-girl motion and I think you are going to think its great.

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